FOREVER ALONE – PART 1

Are you feeling FOREVER ALONE?

This article is dedicated to those who feel that being single is killing them slowly. To those men who go to the gym, try to dress well, learn the “best compliments” for girls and even take a shower more often… But no matter what they do, they fail to win the woman of their dreams.

To those women who are really scared of staying single for life. Those women, who try to wear the best make-up possible, go to the gym, lose weight, have all kind of hair straightening done and do everything humanly possible to get the attention of the man of their dreams but nothing happens and finally they lost any hope.

 

WARNING: This article is not for you who are FOREVER ALONE by choice… or maybe I should say FOREVER ALONE by fear. Dedicated to you, men, who are single because you aren’t brave enough to tell the woman you love what’s in your heart. It’s not dedicated to you, women, who are single because you are afraid that a man breaks your heart again and you have put a big wall in front of you so no one can get close enough to hurt you. On second thought, just because I'm happier today than usual, I’ll dedicate you this article.

FIRST: I’ll start with you, man, who your cowardice has led you to feel FOREVER ALONE. If you know you have the right age (I’ll make a parenthesis here. God said: “It’s not good for the man to be alone”. If you read carefully it doesn’t say: “It’s not good for the boy to be alone”, or “It’s not good for the teenager to be alone”; in other words, be patient, wait until you become a man). Let’s continue: If you have the right age, if you know the woman you love is the one for you, if you see her and think: “That’s the rib I’m missing”, learn this principle:

GOD MAY HAVE PROMISED YOU SOMETHING BUT THAT DOESN’T MEAN HE WILL CONQUER IT FOR YOU!

What do you mean? God promised Israel a land but even though God himself promised it to them, they had to go and conquer the land. GOD DIDN’T CONQUER THE LAND FOR THEM! Does it tell you something? It’s just that God loves justice and it’s not fair that you enjoy something you haven’t worked for. Learn this: God doesn't fight alongside coward; He fights alongside the brave one. So, be brave, go and work hard for what God has promised you. Your purpose is too big for you to fulfill it alone; so go and be brave enough! Stop being FOREVER COWARD and you’ll stop being FOREVER ALONE! PERIOD!

SECOND: Ladies, to start you have to leave that fear of having your heart broken again. God wasn’t kidding when He said: Be strong and courageous! Did you think that verse was for men only? Well, no! You have to be brave too.

 

Maybe in your case, you only are blaming men for being coward and you feel frustrated because you think there’s nothing you can do. That a woman is not the one who has to woo and you use the phrase: “God will fight for me”… well, you are right. But you know what? Even the time God said his people: “Do not be afraid for I will fight for you”, He asked them to go to the battle field. So please leave your excuses to keep all men a thousand of light years away because of your fear. Go to the battle field! I’m not saying that you should date any guy that passes in front of you. What I’m telling you is that when a real man of God gets close to your heart you have to be brave enough to take risks. Do your part, God will do the rest. Your purpose is too big for you to fulfill it alone; so go and be brave enough!

 From now on, this verse will have a special meaning for your heart:

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9

Please do not miss the second and third part of this article.

Author: Luis Andrade



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